Nobody can relax here in the islands while being treated like a POW everywhere they go.
Stay away from the USA. It just is not worth the abuse and hassle to subject your wives and daughters to the TSA perverts at the gates (one of whom just got thrown in jail in Orange County for trying to keep a 15 year old girl as a sex-slave).
Look at it this way, would touring Germany have been enjoyable while Hitler and the Gestapo were running the place?
I rest my case.
Find some other vacation destination this summer. There is nothing to see in the USA that is worth getting fondled and having your luggage ripped off (and yes, they just busted a Newark TSA worker for stealing $400,000 worth of electronics from travelers) by the TSA, who have yet to find a single real terrorist.